Been meaning to say that for a long time and just when I thought I could “let it go” (as it’s been suggested I do) he pulls another bonehead move. Plans were being made for Megan’s uncle (who is more like a father to her than my ex) to meet us and pick Megan up after our week of birthdays. We had suggested Chattanooga but he opted to come back up to the Morristown area again. Things were somewhat confusing because Megan go a call from her uncle that sounded like he was on the road heading up. He likes to drive up the night before and head back the next day. Right after that call she gets a call from her father wanting to know where she was but never gave her a reason why he wanted to know. Perhaps IF he had EXPLAINED that he was also heading back up to DC and had stayed the night at the same hotel as her uncle, MAYBE Megan would have wanted to spend the evening with him, her uncle, her cousin & family. She had no idea that he was even at the same hotel until after we dropped her off. She tried calling him but never got an answer. She and her uncle waited around for him but got tired of waiting so they headed back to Nashville. Once again my ex the great communicator strikes again.
Seems the cousin & family stayed with the ex. That in itself was “nice” – but even family should be respectful of oher family members things and not go through Megan stuff moving and even breaking things. Geez, I still feel bad to this day when I was staying with my sister and broke one of her nutcrackers.
Another issue the ex loves to deny is that Megan has asthma – oh I love that one. Six asthma related admissions to the hospital with pneumonia but she doesn’t have asthma according to him – but I degress. Granted, yes it is his apartment but when he allows his “guests” that reak of cigarette smoke to sleep in Megan’s bed which in turn makes her sick – the least the jerk could do would be to wash her sheets and spray down her room before she gets back. Considering he’s not doing a good job with Megan’s health insurance (he does have TRICARE – yeah right that’s top notch) I have every right in the world to bitch when he does something that makes her sick.
Okay, I’ve ranted enough about my (best Red Forman voice) dumbass ex. I’ll try not to let his stupidity ruin the fabulous week of birthdays. More to follow on that, plus a few other tangent rants about who didn’t bother to show up.
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