On March 31, 1997 I signed a document stating “Neither party shall make disparaging statements about the other to the children, or anyone else, that would tend in any way to interfere with or harm the relationship that each party hereto has with the children. Both parties shall at all times foster the relationship of the other with the children.”
Now that all the children are adults, I’m not bound by this “contract”. I sure wish I could go back and sue for breech of contract – as we all know that my ex broke both of these items. I bent over backwards to make sure Megan called her father and stayed in touch with him every time she stayed with me. He obviously did nothing to “foster the relationship of the other with the children.” I’m sure he figured they could make their own minds up – well I still encourage Megan with her relationship with her father and she’s going to be 19 this year.
Stay tuned – next up Part Two: Whereabouts, Well-being and Medical Care
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