If I could ask my mom just one question today, it would be something related to my not being able to see my grandchildren. I would have to carefully formulate my question, a simple “what do you think about me not being able to see them?” would probably result in a simple, “I don’t like it”. I’m more curious of her thoughts about my ex’s attitude and if she thinks it’s influencing D1 and D2’s behavior.
My ex’s is always telling anyone that will listen, what a good relationship he had with my mom. I truly feel my mom would not tolerate his current behavior and would say something to him. Would the question be “are you angry at him for not fostering a better relationship between D1, D2 and the grandchildren?” or it might even be “would you have said something to him about his attitude?”
I know in my heart, this must hurt her pretty bad.